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“Conquering” Rome in four days- a long account of a weekend in the eternal city.

Almost getting conned.

As we stepped through the sliding doors from baggage claim at the Fuimicino Airport, it was a bit like stepping into an Italian scene from the beginning of “Love Actually”. There were people everywhere; some looking attentively for the ones they were expecting; others embracing their loved ones. And of course, there is no reason to delay hugs, even if it does mean it’s a tad more tricky for other passengers to find a suitable route to walk around them and their luggage.

After a non-eventful train ride, which included having our tickets stamped (read: have a small circular indentation made on them) before boarding the train in a little machine, we arrived at the Termini station. Some friendly men (I thought) “kindly” ushered us to the exit, and as we stepped off the platform one of them approached us and asked where we were headed. Thinking “that’s nice of him” we confirmed that we were indeed off to a hotel, adding that “no, we didn’t need a taxi as we were going to get the Metro”. “Oh, but the Metro stopped running at 9 pm”, he informed us dramatically. Stood there in this quiet and deserted part of the station I realized my carefully planned route to our hotel was now not going to work (we later found out the Metro does in fact run till 11:30pm). I asked about busses to which he responded rather patronizingly that “of course” there were no busses as most of Rome is cobblestones and narrow roads. We showed him where we were going on a well-used map, to which he “kindly” said he could take us in his taxi for €30. I told him that was way too expensive, to which he “kindly” said he’d do it for €25. At this point the whole situation felt very dodgy; his insistence paired with a distinct alcohol smell on his breath had us politely make our leave and head out the front door of the station. Outside it was already dark and people were getting ready for the night in makeshift beds along the station. Walking with purpose (not knowing quite where we were headed) we approached a man with a taxi (that actually had an official sign on it) and he pointed us to the taxi line. After a little while waiting we got a taxi that drove us efficiently to our destination for a mere €13. It was good to arrive, yet a bit disconcerting to realize how vulnerable one becomes when in a strange city.

In a very modest brick building on a cobblestoned narrow street was the Inn Spagna. We pushed through the doors and found ourselves at the reception which was nothing more than a little desk at the bottom of a long marble staircase. The receptionist was very friendly and took our luggage up to the 4th floor while we ventured out for a snack before inspecting our room. With a four storey climb up narrow stair there was lots of reason to enjoy the sweet delights of the city.

The cobblestoned city.

After a good night’s sleep we ventured out into the city. It was stunning to see it for the first time in daylight. Cobblestoned (yes, many cobblestones cover the streets of this city), beautiful brick buildings built towering high, I imagine due to many people and not a lot of space, and sunshine. We strolled along our street and after a few minutes reached Piazza di Spagna which consists of a beautiful fountain Fontana della Barcaccia and the Spanish steps leading up to a church. It was so beautiful and we had breakfast just opposite it.

Then we went in search of the tourist office close to the Piazza Barberini . We walked for ages, enjoying the city and people and getting a feel of the atmosphere. The tourist office was hidden in a small street and was very not helpful. But at least we’d gotten a walk through a part of the city we might not have chosen to visit had we not had the goal of finding some more tourist information.

“Rome is like lasagne”.

From there we walked down to the Colosseum. It was amazing to encounter one spectacular building after the other, and wondering what they all were (later on reading the guidebooks we did find out what a few of them were). It was quite interesting to be in that area of the city as it was almost like someone had a box of toys which were all kinds of ancient and less ancient buildings and just dumped them and then organised them around each other. On one side there might be an archaeological digging site, and right next to it a beautiful basilica and then a modern building. Quite intriguing really.

We got approached by a tour-recruiter (but she seemed nice) and signed up for a guided tour of the Colosseum and Forum Romanum. Then we went for lunch, and no, we didn’t have lasagne, but I did enjoy a very delicious Spaghetti Bolognese and below average tiramisu.

Our guided tour was just that, a guided tour. Maria very expertly guided us through the sights, explaining that “Rome is like lasagne, it is built in many layers.” It was very interesting, packed with so many facts I can’t remember most of them. But it did inspire me to maybe look into the history of Rome a bit more. A few fun facts I did pick up and want to keep in mind was that on the stone walls when there were square indentations, it was for scaffolding so they could build higher (I’d figured maybe they were little shelves or something, although to be honest it wasn’t something I had pondered a lot). Also the Colosseum was used to subdue the people and keep them from creating uproars and rebellions. The emperor would organise gladiator games for a set amount of days and then the people could come for free and get free food and that would distract them. They could also fill the 70 000 seat stadium in 15 minutes. It was spectacular.

Another interesting thing was that the Colosseum and Forum Romanum are in parts because the materials used to build them were taken and used in newer buildings in the city. Basically it seemed the deal was that if you wanted to build something new you could just take materials from older buildings. Unless.... they were deemed sacred spaces which happened by the Catholic church putting a cross in it. So even if the Colosseum is a huge ruin in one sense, there probably would be even less remaining hadn’t the Catholic church put a cross down in it.

Rome certainly wasn’t built in a day, and they only have three Metro lines because every time they start digging they find more buried treasures.

After Colosseum we got a tour of the Forum Romanum which is a site of many old temples and buildings, now ruins, but which give a picture of how old Rome was. It was so good to have a guide or I wouldn’t have known what I was looking at. She also had a great book with these plastic pages that showed what it had looked like. Amazing buildings towering high, making me wonder how on earth they managed to build without our modern machinery. The fact that stood out there was about the “whisper” who would follow the Emperor around on his tours, but I’ve written another blog entry about the role of the “whisper”.

My mind was full as we finished our tour and it was quite refreshing to see some beautiful poppy flowers growing alongside some of the ancient ruins, reminding me of life now, and new life amidst all that has gone. New life growing in soil on top of so many centuries of history and life lived.

Before we headed back to our hotel we popped up to the Basilica San Pietro in Vincoli, the church of St. Peter in chains. It was at the top of some stairs going through a tunnel and we saw the chains that held Peter from the Bible when he was imprisoned in Jerusalem. It is also where Michelangelo’s famous Moses statue is. A good ending to a day of culture and history.

A little bit of contemporary amidst the history.

Dinner was had in a very modern restaurant (although it did have a stone arch in it) and then we went and watched Foxcatcher in the only cinema in Rome that shows original language film. It was quite an experience. Very old and had two screens, literally. Toilets were just off the theatre, so you found your seat and then off to the left was an old curtain thing through which you could find a small hallway with the toilets. It was old and fun and the film was impactful (if quite dark, mood wise).

Unfortunately I didn’t meet the Pope.

Saturday was Vatican day. After a little snack we headed out and walked to the Vatican. Our path there was full of more beautiful sights. We passed the Fontana di Trevi, the famous fountain from the movie La Dolce Vita, unfortunately it’s being renovated so no water and covered in scaffolding. We had a cappuccino at the famous Piazza Navona, which is stunning and beautiful sunshine made it even more beautiful. Then we walked to the Vatican.

We already had our tour booked, and found the phrase “we already have tickets” to be a good deterrent to the hundreds of eager people trying to sell our tours and tickets to “avoid the queues”. We found our tour place, had a gelato as we waited and then scuffled along with 50 others to the entrance with our tour guide. It felt like a tourist machine (which it is), and having so many people in the group (we had been envisioned a group of 20 when we booked the tour, but we were well over 50) and then the customary headphone and little radio thing to hear the guide made for a contrast to the day before when our group was 10 and the guide was more personable. However, coming in I realized this was the only possible way as there were so many people.

We were guided around the Vaticano- so much to see. They had these amazing woven maps that had 98% accuracy from a time when aerial photos and googlemaps didn’t exist, and tiny mosaic flooring and so many other treasures. We spent 10 minutes in the Capella Sistina where the ceiling is painted by Michelangelo, which is absolutely stunning. But this also was crowded with constant “hushes” from guards as it’s supposed to be a “quiet” place.

Our tour ended with the Basilica di San Pietro, the largest one in the world and no other cathedrals can be larger than this one. It was very impactful as well... most places in Rome are. It’s just one overwhelming piece of architecture after the other. There is a statue called Pieta which is famous but it was closed off (for some reason). I managed to sneak a peak at it through closed curtains (the men guarding it were not very friendly when I asked if I could get a better look- they were probably quite tired of nosy tourists).

As we came out from our tour onto the St. Peter’s square they were in full preparation for Easter and the open day at the Vactican the following day (which according to our guide meant that it would be free for everyone and packed with nuns). Walking away we passed the long long queue to get in and were thankful we’d chosen the guided tour (both for time reasons but also because we wouldn’t have known what we were seeing walking around).

And no, I didn’t see the Pope in person- the “closest” look was a video in the ticket area of the Vatican. Oh well, maybe next time....

Stumbling onto the Pantheon.

Walking back we decided to go by the Pantheon the best preserved antique temple. We were headed in that direction but it felt like we just stumbled upon it as it was suddenly there, amidst the cobblestoned streets with the brick buildings. It was so huge, and I was thankful that our guide in the Colosseum had explained that to build the domes so high they actually use a lighter stone type at the top or the structure would fall.

Italian cheese.

In the evening we participated in Italian cheese. First we ate a lovely meal of cheese and meats and wine at Le Lanterne, a very nice little restaurant at the side of an alley-like road, and then we went to a concert in a church with “the best of Italy”- which was a couple of hours of all the most famous opera songs accompanied by some ballet. It was definitely designed for tourists and felt quite cheesy, but then I do like cheese. It was a feel good experience and the only “sadness” was feeling for the soloists who probably would rather be singing the lead role in a “proper” opera then doing this show.

Surviving the market.

Sunday we realised we’d done the two main things and so decided to walk down to a famous, many kilometre long market in Transtevere. Again we decided walking was better than figuring out public transportation, especially as walking allows you to see so much more then travelling on a Metro underground.

It took a bit of map reading and figuring out the way before we managed to find Porta Puense where the market started. We entered the market and just walked. It was full of clothes and shoes and bags, but so much stuff and so many people we just kept walking. It wasn’t a touristy market but seemed like the place where the locals come on a Sunday to buy cheap things. It was very similar to the Albert Cuypt market in Amsterdam, without the food.

After a while of walking we decided to cut into a different part (more flea market or “antiques” part of it) and eventually found a little cafe where we had cappuccinos and snacks and realised that the tourist hub really does have higher prices (here the cappuccino cost 1.10€ as opposed to 5€ in the tourist areas). We enjoyed our little “pit stop” and then decided we were satisfied and headed back to the centre of the city. Walking along we saw many Italians carrying olive branches, probably the Italian equivalent of palm branches since it was Palm Sunday.

We walked along the river to Castel Sant’ Angelo, built by Emperor Hadrian and close to the Vatican. It was really small yet big and we walked around it and saw beautiful views of Rome. Parts of it used to be the Pope’s residence which was so surreal as the nicely decorated rooms didn’t really fit with the brick of the castle. There is even and underground tunnel to the Vatican should the Pope have to flee (not sure it that is still in operation or if it was something historic- the facts get muddled at times as there are so many of them).

Walking back to our hotel we stopped at a rustic and cute cafe where we had a very late lunch. It was situated in some small streets which is basically what a lot of Rome consists of.

St.John Passion

In the evening we took a very long route to the Church of Paul behind walls and heard a beautiful performance of Bach’s St. John Passion. It was lovely to reflect on the story of Easter in a beautiful church in Rome.

Walking back (the not so long route) there were different impressions- a man lying next to his dog sleeping... keeping warm and yet not having a home. A tourist took a photo of it which made me feel uncomfortable, as it felt like this stranger was invading the life of a man whom he knows nothing of. And yet that is reality, most people around us we know nothing about and yet we make up opinions about them.

We also came across a square with four fountains beautifully lit up. A little gem in the middle of a cross roads. And after a nice very Italian dinner (bruschetta and seafood spaghetti) I had a gelato on the way back to our hotel.

Maybe we’ll see it in a film sometime soon.

Our final day in Rome we strolled up to Piazza del Popolo and had a final overpriced (or maybe rightly priced) cappuchino and cornetto (also known as croissant). The square was large and felt less touristy.

Afterwards we strolled around the park of Villa Borghese for a while. Enjoying the space and less people, reflecting on how much our days in Rome had contained. It truly felt like a “full” weekend in a good way. As we were walking some Americans were busy commenting on how to change the appearance of one of the snack-selling vans in the park. I thought it a little strange, until I saw them again with a group talking about how to set things up and it was evident they were planning for the filming of a film. I candidly photographed the group, thinking maybe they’re famous and I’ll see the very film they’ve been planning in the cinema one day.

Like herring in a barrel (som sild i tønne).

After a quick lunch and final pasta purchase we headed to the Metro, deciding that this was the best option to get to the train station. If only we’d known.

Walking down to the platform it was clear this was a well used mode of transportation and waiting at the platform I did think there were quite a few people beyond ourselves having chosen to travel by Metro that afternoon. However, when the Metro arrived I thought “the Metro is packed, this must be a popular place for people to come to”... but hardly anyone got off and we literally pushed ourselves into the carriage and stood, as we say in Norway, “like herring packed into a barrel”. The positive of being so packed together is that you don’t need to worry about falling as there is no way you could do such a thing. We were three stops from the station and every stop someone new got on (and few people got off). Needless to say it was a “breath of fresh air” when we finally reached the Termini station. After following quite confusing signs we managed to get our train tickets and find our train (you’d think it would be very straight forward but it wasn’t).

Happy to get home at last.

Our adventures didn’t end at the airport. As we went to check in we were informed that our flight was delayed due to strong winds in central Europe. So we ended up having to get rebooked from KLM to Lufthansa and were thankful that they have an agreement to help each other out in situations like these (I thought it was quite nice of them to do this seeing as they aren’t partners normally). We now had quite a few hours to kill and wondered around the shops and had a sandwich and cappuccino at a cafe (where the tables were for table service only so the poor waiter had to keep sending people away who had sat there without plans to order something through him- a confusing and not very well functioning system). Our flight kept getting delayed and so our 2 hour layover in Frankfurt ended up being about 30 minutes which was fine.

However, once we’d boarded our final flight we still had to wait a bit as they had to change a tire and do the paperwork before we could leave. As the person informing us (could have been flight attendant or captain) said “a job isn’t done before the paper work is done”. It made me smile.

And so, a few hours later and many days of information and impressions fuller, we arrived home safely from a warm spring in Rome to a cold and windy Norway. I look forward to Summer. And there ends the long and detailed (and yet, not including every detail) account of a long weekend in Rome with my mum. Definitely a city worth visiting (again).

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